What Men and Women Want from their Spouses – Pastor Sam Adeyemi
Posted on: July 4, 2010
Posted in: All Videos, Family, Marriage, Relationship, Sex
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Posted on: July 4, 2010
Posted in: All Videos, Family, Marriage, Relationship, Sex
July 7th, 2010 at 3:01 pm
Another important admonition from Pastor Sam. More annoiting to you Sir.
July 11th, 2010 at 6:21 am
Powerful, Thought provoking and Eye openning! Thank you Pastor Sam.
July 13th, 2010 at 2:36 pm
Pastor Sam, I hope and pray you get to read and reply to this mail. This message is just right for what is happening in my marriage and have been asking myself if i didnt make a mistake getting married to him cos he is not just sensitive at all.I wish you & your wife can counselus though we dont attend Daystar but i respect and admire the anointing in your ministry.You know there was this day i was taking our baby out of the car, holding my bag and my baby’s bag and struggling to get the house key from my bag at the same time,you wont believe my husband just stood there not offering to help simply because we just had a quarrel shortly before we got home.I suspect there is the male ego that is seriously affecting him and even if you try telling him, he will get angry.
Another issue u raised was the financial and emotional security:i will love to have even if its little assurances here and there, we ve been married for almost 2yrs and though i didnt have a good job after we got married but about a year ago, i got a well paying job and though i earn more than him, you wont believe my husband hardly pays for anything in the house-it is so frustrating and annoying that i have to buy pampers,baby food, food stuff, fuel my car and house generator, pay for water ,dstv, general house repairs , buy the basic needs and if not forcefully, i made sure i started collecting creche money from him and its so annoying that even when i remind him that its the 4th day of the mth, the attitude is not nice at all and am like must the creche give you a reminder note before you pay or what?. I have to make a point here, he has been supportive before i got this job, but after i started working, he doesnt just contribute again and when you ask him, he might get angry and really, i will love to support but when there is appreciation and gestures here and there, i wont have minded.He can only assist to feed the baby when he is in the mood. Because i resume work 7, i have to be awake for 430 to get my 10mth baby for creche, my husband wont even assist in throwing the baby bath water even if he passes the baby room 5 times and he sees am dressing him.
Pastor Sam, there are so many other petty issues that are unconsciously creating a wall and is seriously reducing my feelings for him, am struggling with all my might here but am afraid if care is not taken, i might lose it someday.
How can you help us pastor sam and pastor Nike?
July 27th, 2010 at 4:05 pm
Pastor Sam, we are quite familiar as i was a member of Rhema Chapel, PHC and you visited occasionally. With respect to the message, it is good, revealing, concise and straight to the point. I have suddenly become an ardent listener of your messages on the church website. Pls do me a favour – Maturity is very key in marriage but how can one define and achieve maturity to prevent little chaos in marriage. Say me well to Pastor Nike.
July 30th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
A very important message that needs to be heard over and over again by all couples married, about to and all youths in diaspora for like it or not a lot of us [christians and the like] go through one issue or the other inclusive of myself though am not married but a mass revival should be done on this subject.
Thanking for your life and his ministry via you sir. God bless.